tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3555606528434199774.post1066778304756568145..comments2024-03-14T13:58:59.388-05:00Comments on Dear John: Sweet 16areyoukiddingmehttp://www.blogger.com/profile/16107214079237461141noreply@blogger.comBlogger5125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3555606528434199774.post-79325531364125453892022-10-21T13:42:54.301-05:002022-10-21T13:42:54.301-05:00Grief is so tricky between two survivors who have ...Grief is so tricky between two survivors who have different relationships with the lost loved one. On one hand, it's important to have permission to feel the feels, but on the other, you don't want to worry the other one with the depth of those feels. I think it takes a lot of trust. Which is hard when a rug has been pulled out from under. <br /><br />I'm just holding space for you and S. (And I'm late doing so....apologies.)Lori Lavender Luzhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/15394441222262940632noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3555606528434199774.post-73053057464197606032022-10-13T15:16:48.125-05:002022-10-13T15:16:48.125-05:00Holding you in my heart. Sometimes the happiest da...Holding you in my heart. Sometimes the happiest days are the hardest. And sending really good thoughts for the driver's test tomorrow.Melhttps://stirrup-queens.comnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3555606528434199774.post-31418740869156269022022-10-13T05:26:46.412-05:002022-10-13T05:26:46.412-05:00This is so hard, A. And I am so sorry for you, sin...This is so hard, A. And I am so sorry for you, since so many might and most certainly will think “it’ll get better in time” and in some way it will, but at the same time IT WON’T. And it’s unfair and you have to go on, because you have to, and no one asked if you want to, nor S, and somehow you just have to. And I cried for you today, and I know it won’t help you, when did crying ever helped, but I’m thinking of you often, my friend, and hope that you are ok. Hugs. Minahttp://kmina.wordpress.comnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3555606528434199774.post-83216407298557715412022-10-12T21:17:42.318-05:002022-10-12T21:17:42.318-05:00I think that's the worst part - so much of my ...I think that's the worst part - so much of my adult life was shared only with him, and there's no one to say "Remember that time when..." to.areyoukiddingmehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/16107214079237461141noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3555606528434199774.post-53366200936536677762022-10-12T01:38:13.756-05:002022-10-12T01:38:13.756-05:00There really is no way to fix this. Hope that she ...There really is no way to fix this. Hope that she was able to get a happy 16th birthday. It is truly a milestone. <br /><br />I grieve for all the shared moments and history, which are now only yours to keep, and reminisce. ehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/00360433856895921745noreply@blogger.com